Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Ryan's Exciting Birth Story

Thank you all so much for your encouraging words, prayers, and support! It means so much to us to know that we have have such a wonderful support system of family and friends. We appreciate you!
Several people have asked how I'm doing, so I thought that I'd post a little bit about the "story of Ryan's birth" and how I'm doing (on a lighter note) instead of focusing on the health issues that Ryan is currently facing. His birth story would have made for an exciting episode of TLC's A Baby Story! When I woke up experiencing contractions, they were already 1 to 3 minutes apart and 15-30 seconds in duration. Since my water breaking had triggered our trip to the LDR with Ethan, I hadn't needed to count/time contractions before. I had to dig up my folder of info from the OB office to find out how many contractions within what period of time is cause for calling the doctor's office. My office's paperwork said "contractions every 8 minutes for 1 hour". Silly me decided to wait an hour and half of experiencing more rapid contractions before calling the doctor (I thought since this was so early, surely it would turn out to be false labor). We called the doctor and my parents at about 4am. The doctor suggested that I take a shower to see if the contractions dissipated, but when I told her that I already had done that, she recommended that I come in to triage. Mom arrived at our house at about 5:15am to stay with Ethan, we got to the hospital at about 5:30am. Triage took longer than I had expected! The nurse asked me about 45 minutes worth of medical history questions while I paused my responses here and there to breathe through contractions before she checked how far along I was. When she checked me at about 6:15am, I was 3 to 4 cm and had continued with regular strong contractions every 1 to 3 minutes. So, I was admitted, requested my epidural, and was comfortable with epidural pain relief at about 7:15am. The doctor didn't arrive until about 9:15am at which point I was 8-9cm, and she broke my water. They wanted me to wait to push until I felt some pressure, but when I still didn't feel any pressure at about 10:15am, my nurse checked and said that I had probably been fully dilated for quite awhile. She decided to have me try a practice push, and with one push, he was crowning. She told me to stop pushing and RAN out of the room to find the doctor. Thankfully my Dr. happened to be just outside in the hallway because the nurse said that if she had needed to page her, the doctor wouldn't have made it in time. My Dr. had one glove on and she and the LDR nurse were turned the other way (talking to the NICU staff who had arrived because Ryan was going to be delivered under 37 weeks of age), when I shouted, "I'm not pushing, but he's coming out on his own!" My Dr. spun around, quickly pulled her ungloved hand under the sleeve of her gown, and literally caught Ryan with her arm and single gloved hand. Dan had seen all this happening and had lunged forward in case no one else made it in time! So, Ryan had a pretty exciting birth, entering the world on his own timing (guess he waits for no one!), and literally barely being caught by my OB.
Thankfully since my labor and delivery with Ryan went so fast, I have been doing really well recovering. One of Ryan's respiratory therapists gave me a mini-lecture on overdoing it after seeing that I walked to the NICU from the LDR later in the day after he was born instead of asking someone to bring me in a wheelchair. I was too anxious to see Ryan (Dan was already with him) and didn't want to wait for a nurse to be available to take me there in a wheelchair. So it's a huge praise that my recovery has been really quick and easy and Dan and I have both been able to be with Ryan in his NICU room nearly the entire time since he was born. Now if we could just all get out of here together... ;)

11 comments:

Melinda said...

Won't it be interesting to see if his personality exhibits these surprising delivery traits! Praying for Ryan and the rest of you as well. Has Ethan been able to visit yet?

Julie said...

Yes, I am very curious to see what Ryan's personality will be like! I think that he will always keep us on our toes... Unfortunately Ethan has not been able to visit and meet his little brother. Since it is flu and RSV season, access to the NICU is restricted. Visitors must be over 14 years old and be completely healthy. So Ethan will not be able to meet his brother until Ryan is discharged. My Mom and Dad have shown him digital photos on their TV, so he's at least been able to "see" him.

Unknown said...

What an exciting entrance! I was wondering how it went since you were originally scheduled for a C-Section.

The Middletons said...

WOW!! That's quite a story! One that you will never forget:o) I am glad that you are feeling well and so happy for you and Dan that you've been able to be in Ryan's NICU room the whole time. That is such a blessing.

Staci

Julie said...

I was actually scheduled to be induced for Ryan (not for a C-section), though I came close to needing a C-section for Ethan's birth as he was still breech at 37 weeks. Somehow Ethan managed to turn himself around (even though he was huge!) in time for delivery.

Julie said...

Yes, I am SO glad that Dan and I have both been able to stay with Ryan in the NICU. Being at a NICU that has private rooms for each patient (and their families) has been a huge blessing.

Samantha said...

Julie, I just got home from Florida tonight and had tons of emails to go through. I almost fell out of my chair when, reading them in reverse order, I saw "Update on Ryan" in the subject line and realized your little guy was here already! I'm reading quickly to get caught up on the whole situation and wanted you to know that I'll be praying for you all from here on out. I feel so badly that I didn't know about all this until now! Your birth story is amazingly exciting, and you're right--it would have been great on A Baby Story. Thanks for updating on your blog; I'll be checking it regularly.

Anonymous said...

Based on the birth story, you may have your hands full with Ryan. It sounds like he has his own schedule. I saw the picture that Dan sent. He is so sweet!! I can't wait for the two of you to be able to hold him. I am sure you are getting very anxious for that to happen. You all are in our prayers.

Adriene & Scott

Anonymous said...

Julie, from the time the ultrasound tech told you she had never seen a more active baby, I knew you were going to have a baby who would be determined to do things how he wants to! His birth will definitely be a story for him as he grows up :) I am keeping all of you in my prayers that Ryan gets to be weaned from the oxygen, does not have difficulty feeding, and gets to go home soon to meet Ethan! Please let me know if you need anything. Sarah

Anonymous said...

The second ones do come more quickly, don't they? What a story! I see Dr. Meltzer delivered you. I thought she was great when she delivered Timothy. Hope you were pleased as well. We're praying for you and look forward to meeting Ryan one day!

Megan H.

Anonymous said...

What an entrance!!! Glad that the OB was able to catch him although it would have been kinda cool if Dan had got to! Would the doctor still have charged you for the delivery if Dan had been the one to "deliver" him? I wonder...I hope that you and Dan get to hold him soon. I can't imagine not being able to snuggle and comfort him. My thoughts continue to be with you!

The Pope's